I've met a lot of girls. I'm not saying that in the typical nerd fashion either, which would imply meeting them only online or in an MMORPG. I mean it, I've dated a lot, and I've been friends with a lot more. And Through all of it I've known more girls who've believed in idiocy over rationale.
Prior to being married I dated a lot and I found out that every single one has a different spin on womanhood. Furthermore, like everyone, their self-concept vs their self-image seemed as if it was in an eternal struggle. However for a number of girls I knew, the battle of 'selves' extended beyond an inner conflict and was brought to the table of everyone they interacted with- including the guy they were dating, or me.
I freely admit that I seemed to end up with crazies, so if you're a girl, you can rest assured that I'm not talking about you. However, I might be talking about you if you act on your hormones too much, believe you are humble while acting self-absorbed, feel that your friends are inferior, and that one day you will live, happily, in a palace of pink with a man-slave who has no freewill of his own (Read: She-Ra's crystal castle with Bo).( More about this behind here.Collapse )