I'm going to write out what's up. Rachael and I have reached a decision, we have to move. We have to move to a place that has better job opportunities, and where we're paying less taxes because of corrupt dickwads. After a LOT of serious discussion it was down to a choice between Raleigh, North Carolina and Seattle, Washington. After more discussion and research, about not only jobs but culture and people it seems like Seattle is the better of the two choices.
I wish that I could see this decision as only beneficial, but like all big decisions there are things that aren't pleasant. Leaving behind family and friends won't be fun. Finding the funding to move, a place to live, and whiddling down possessions to make the trip easier are all issues I see. I also, though I know they will say nice things to my face, the fact is that it's going to be really rough on my mom and dad because I'm their only kid. While I'm here I'm an hour or so away it gives them both the freedom to visit, but out there it wont be so, and when that finally hits it will be very unpleasant.
I have no idea about how long it will take to do this. Or even if I can in a reasonable time frame, but I think this is what I should focus my goals on.